Graciously Receiving and its Effect on Others

While eating at a restaurant some time ago, I had no idea how much the interactions of a family seated nearby would affect me.

It was a celebration as evidenced by the staff singing “Happy Birthday” to the young man.

Rather than duck his head in embarrassment, he sat up straighter in his chair, acknowledged they were there for him, and grinned from ear to ear.

After the singing, the father handed his son a piece of paper.

The boy’s eyes lit up as he pumped the air with his fist, excitedly commenting on what must have been tickets to a concert and the added gift of a backstage pass.

It was obvious he was thrilled, and he let his parents know.

I enjoyed watching this family. The parents, grandparents, sister, and husband with a new baby, all interacted with love and kindness.

My spirits were lifted just witnessing their enjoyment of each other. 

What stood out most to me was this young man’s ability to graciously receive. With joy and appreciation he demonstrated gratitude.

His happiness was mirrored in the faces of those who gave, and those who observed.

I recognized that his behavior, and the positive interactions of his family had influenced me for the better.

Do we realize how our response to receiving affects not only the giver, but also those who might be nearby?

Are we gracious receivers?

I realized in observing this family how even the smallest thing such as saying thank you or smiling at someone can ripple out and affect others.

And how the opposite is also true.

I don’t imagine the family interactions would have been so enjoyable if the young man was sullen, or ungrateful, or even too embarrassed to show his true feelings.

Since this experience, I’ve tried to be more accountable and genuine in my interactions with others by sincerely expressing gratitude and appreciation.

Life is so much more enjoyable for all when when we graciously receive.

Much love,